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Thursday, November 15, 2012

Every Love Story is a Ghost Story: A Life of David Foster Wallace


To some, David Foster Wallace was an articulator of the seemingly ineffable, a man giving voice to the most pressing issues facing modern man. To others, he was a writer of overwrought prose all too willing to impress with postmodern pastiche. To many, he was an intellect who realized that his smartness was not enough to fulfill a reader and more importantly himself – that an equal helping of heart went a long way, and was even of paramount importance. And yet to others still, he was just the next logical step up from writers such as Barth and Pynchon, the satirist of today satirizing the satirists of yesterday. If he wasn’t the modern patron saint of depressives everywhere, he was just another unfortunate, disappointing statistic.

Whatever your opinion of Wallace and his writing, D.T. Max’s absorbing biography Every Love Story is a Ghost Story: A Life of David Foster Wallace is an absolute must read.
Since the writer’s suicide in 2008, much has been mythologized about his life. Luckily for us, Max lucidly and straightforwardly chronicles the phases of Wallace’s life: his childhood spent on the Great Plains of Illinois, his prodigious college years at Amherst, his ascent to literary prominence, his struggle with clinical depression and drug addiction, and his later years culminating with his tragic end.

The book is at its most compelling and haunting when Wallace puts his struggle between his head and his heart (“the head throbbing heartlike”) on the page, particularly with his letters to fellow writers. In light of the first round of edits to his debut novel The Broom of the System, Wallace expounds for seventeen pages on literary theory and criticism in an attempt to dissuade his literary agent from allowing the editor to make certain cuts an corrections. In another letter, Wallace pleads with genuine desperation to his literary agent in order to extend a deadline: “Please don’t give up on me… Do not assume I’ve given up in despair…”

Peppered throughout the book, however, are surprising tid-bits that at times can  paint an unflattering portrait, pockmarks and all. Among the surprising revelations: he had callous and strained relationships with his mom and sister, he was a notorious womanizer, he considered carrying out a homicidal crime of passion, he fabricated large portions of his famous nonfiction essays, and he voted for Ronald Reagan.

But Max, ever the humanist, reflects Wallace’s deep urgency to connect with readers in a culture that is becoming increasingly atomized by technology, media saturation, solipsism, etc. Wallace wanted to invoke a hip, experimental aesthetic that was more associated with a nihilistic sensibility while genuinely extoling traditional verities linked with fiction prior to postmodernism. One of the most poignant parts of the book, which aptly describes Wallace’s struggle with fiction, comes when Wallace is giving an interview: “..good fiction’s job [is] to comfort the disturbed and disturb the comfortable.”

Ultimately Every Love Story is a Ghost Story is exactly as the title suggests an unnerving recounting of a life that won’t be soon forgotten and a body of work that will stand the test of time. Whatever compelled Wallace to cut his life short will remain a mystery, but in a commencement speech given in 2005, he leaves behind haunting yet heartfelt words: “The only thing that's capital-T true is that you get to decide how you're going to try to see [life].”


By Brady Detwiler